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Maryland is a Hopping Place

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In the past week we've had an earthquake AND a hurricane. I don't know about you, but that's a little too hopping for me! This is the second earthquake we've had in a year or so, though this one was more what I always imagined (and feared) a quake to be. We get hurricanes and tropical storms from time to time, so it's not unheard of, but it was a bit nerve wracking to say the least, especially within mere days of each other.

The earthquake flat out terrified Alexis. Jamison was working away at his desk, I was working out and she was doing her own little thing upstairs by herself. I felt the hairs on the back of my arm stand up and I was confused because I couldn't figure out why exactly that was happening. As I was studying my arm I felt/heard a small rumbling and thought Alexis was jumping around upstairs so I sent Jamison up to check on her since he was closer. I decided to go examine the issue too and was halfway across the floor when the house started to shake in earnest. We're talking full out walls moving, floor bouncing, light fixtures swaying, pictures moving around on the wall quake here. Surprisingly I wasn't scared. The last one freaked me out, but this one I was calm. I was however worried about Alexis because I knew this wasn't going to be her cup of tea. I called to Jamison and told him to keep going to get to Alexis and he did.

After our little quake it took about an hour or so to calm Alexis down...She was that scared. She is still a little twitchy about the whole thing. She asks me several times a day if I can feel the floor moving or the ground shaking because she's afraid it's going to happen again. I keep assuring her she's fine, and while I can't promise her that we won't have another earthquake, she needs to stop worrying about it so much because I'll take care of her. She gives me one of those looks that clearly indicates she thinks I'm nuts, but she settles down and goes on about her day.

In Lex's mind earthquake equals unmitigated horror. Bring on a hurricane/tropical storm however and after a little explanation of what is happening and how it works the kid kicks in to all out explore mode!

At first she was uneasy about the storm especially when I started moving things in to the garage from the patio so they wouldn't blow around. I quipped on Twitter that I wouldn't resent battening down the hatches as much if I had an ocean view to go along with the trouble, but Alexis wasn't quite sure why I was moving all of the things. I kept telling her we were far enough inland that we would get a lot of wind and rain, but the big stuff would happen on the coast, but that we still needed to be prepared just in case.

On Saturday she wasn't too sure about this, equating hurricanes with tornadoes, especially as the wind picked up. She thought we were going to have to sit in the basement all day Saturday in to early Sunday morning. She kept fretting, something that Alexis is exceptionally good at much like her father, but finally she calmed. Saturday afternoon, after reassuring her quite a bit, Jamison finally showed her a weather map and explained how the storm worked. Once he was finished with that I took her outside and showed her how the clouds were swirling. From that point on she was hooked!

As you can see in the picture above she's a happy little "weather girl" with her head covered from the sprinkles. She decided to stay on the patio for a while and I was ok with that. All we had was a lot of wind at that point so I let her be and explore.

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She ran around on the patio testing the wind speed and direction for about an hour. I finally had to make her come in and put on rain boots when it started raining and then she headed back out with her wellies, sweater and umbrella and kept up her little exploration.

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We never had any thunder or lightening, just wind and rain. When it got dark I made her come in for good. She was disappointed that the storm passed during the night. By the time she got up on Sunday morning we had a few sprinkles and light wind. The worst of Irene had passed on up the coast to wreak her havoc there. Luckily we were spared any damage despite the wind being a little fierce here and there.

I love that Alexis looks at all this stuff as a learning opportunity and it amuses me that she seems as drawn to the ocean, its power and all things aquatic just as I am. I've sat through Isabel back in 2003 when we lived closer to the Chesapeake Bay and that was enough for me, but the experience is there. Alexis doesn't remember that storm, or the tropical storm that blew through a few years ago either, but I have a feeling she'll remember Irene for a while and if not I'll be happy to share the the pictures with her and tell her about her windy/rainy adventures when she gets older.

She is so my child.

Happy 8th Birthday Alexis!

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Alexis on her 8th birthday

Dear Alexis,

How is possible that 8 years have gone by since the day you were born? It seems like it was just yesterday that I was writing the missive for your 6th and 7th birthdays! Time passes so quickly and seems to more so now that you are in my life.

Eight years ago today you blazed in to my world and it changed me forever. Before you have children people will tell you how much it will change not only your life, but you as well. I knew things would change, but I didn't understand the extent to which that was true. Before you were born I knew love, but I don't think I even came close to understanding what love actually was. Once you arrived I had no doubt that I completely grasped what it was to love someone. Parents always say that their kids have changed them, but you truly have changed me and I think for the better.

As trite as it might sound you are my sunshine, just like the song I sing to you so often before you go to bed. I see the entire world through your eyes and things that I have long since gotten over the wonder of look brand new through you. You bring the shine back to the simplest of things, a flower, a butterfly, a book, a song. I love looking at things through you. You completely change my ideas on a regular basis. You challenge me in the best ways, even on days where I am over your drama and just want to sell you to the circus! Even on those days you can still amaze me in big ways. I love that about you.

I loved seeing New York at Christmas through your eyes. I can't wait to see a Broadway show through your eyes this fall. I loved that we had been on the streets of New York for less than 10 minutes and you turned to me and said, "Mom I so want to move here!" You see life as an adventure and life really should be just that. I've loved watching you learn and grow. Everyday you learn something new and many days you teach me a thing or two as well. I like that about you.

I've mentioned before how caring you are, but it still amazes me how much this grows with you. You are my little empath. You feel in ways that astound me, in a good way. If someone is happy, you are happy with them. You reflect their joy. If someone is sad, you'll cry with them and do anything you can think of to make them feel better. You are the most caring person I've ever known. This is another thing I love about you.

I worry sometimes that you are too empathetic and the big bad world is going to come in an squash you like a little bug. My heart broke for you at Papaw's funeral. You were devastated, partly because you were and partly because you were feeding off of the sad energy in the room. As I held you close and told you everything was going to be ok, you got this look on your face like you knew it was true. It wasn't until after the funeral that you stopped crying, but you realized that life hands you things you might not like, but you have to muddle through. You always pull yourself up. I love that about you.

I've told you before, but I still hope that all your dreams come true. You have such big ideas about the world and how it should be. You want to make things better. I really like that about you. I hope that you never lose that wide eyed wonder of the world. I hope you go and see and do. Don't end up regretting the things you never did. Do them! You'll regret what you didn't do much more than the things you did even if they don't turn out the way you might have hoped. One thing that will never change is that you can learn something from any situation, whether it be good or bad. The important part is to learn and move on to the next adventure. Trust me, there will always be another adventure, all you have to do is hope, dream, look and find. Enjoy life! You only get one.

The most important thing to remember is that I always love you. I am your biggest fan and your most ardent supporter. I will always be there to listen, to hold you when you cry, to help you understand the things that might seem completely incomprehensible, to help when you need a hand. I'm so glad that you came in to my life. I'm so glad that you are you. Never change to suit someone else. It's essential to be yourself. If you have to change to have a friend then they aren't worth having and aren't a true friend to begin with. You are amazing just as you are.

Love,

Mom

Lex's Letter To The Tooth Fairy

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She Cracks Me Up!

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"That's the worst idea in the history of ideas!" Alexis age 7 while playing Wii Lego Indiana Jones with Jamison.

Glad we settled that!

Things I Never Thought I'd Say.....

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"Please stop singing and do your homework."

"But Mom I have to practice so when I become famous I'll sound good!"

*head on desk*

Which part of when she's 18 confuses her?

Time For 2nd Grade!

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Ready For 2nd Grade

Today is Lex's first day of 2nd grade. I'm not sure how this time passed so quickly but here we are! My seven year old is in 2nd grade!

Last night I set everything up (as I usually do) so that it would be ready to go this morning. Let the fun begin!

RIP Archimedes

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Merlin and Archimedes

When I went to clean the hamster's cage today I found that one of them (Archimedes) had gone to the big hamster heaven in the sky. Lex took this as you would expect a 7 year old to take this sort of thing, which is not well at all. We buried him under the apple tree in the backyard and then she cried for a while. Such is the life of a hamster I suppose. I'm not sure when he died. I saw him yesterday afternoon running about the cage.

Merlin is still here. I'm hoping that Archimedes passed away from hamster old age. If she were to lose the other one back to back with the first one, well I'm not sure that would go over well at all. Time will tell I suppose.

Rest in peace little hamster dude. (Alexis totally made me say that! ;oP)

Seven Years

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Dearest Alexis,

Seven years ago today you were born. How is that possible? Most days it seems like it was just yesterday that you were wrapped up in that little hospital blanket, looking for all the world like a little glow worm. You were here and you were mine. I was thrilled! Seven years later here we are!

A lot has happened in your world since last year. You finally got to see "your" Statue of Liberty and you were thrilled! The look of awe on your face is one I will never forget! You truly love that statue and it amuses me the levels of your adoration. Don't lose that ability to look at the world through eyes of fascination as you grow. That is an amazing quality that you posses and I hope that you never lose it!

We also traveled to Connecticut, Massachusetts, Rhode Island, Vermont, New Hampshire and Maine. You had a ball on this trip and of course your favorite part of the trip was standing next to the ocean at the Cape Neddick Lighthouse. You are so my child!

We also enjoyed two trips to Tennessee, one planned, one unexpected, as well as various day trips to locations from DC to Western Maryland. You like to get out and go. I love that about you!

Your birthday party got canceled when you developed a fever and a rash. We thought for a bit you had chicken pox, but it ended up being some generic childhood thing instead. At first you were very sad, but we had a small party with Grandma, Papa, Uncle Jason and us and you quickly came around. You finally decided it was "The best birthday party ever!" I'm so glad you can take a bad situation and make it something more! This is also a good skill to have. I hope it sticks with you as well.

I still wish for you all the things that you want to see and do. I hope we get to take that trip to Paris soon. I can't wait to see your eyes light up when you see the Eiffel Tower. I hope that you see it for the first time at night when it is all lit up and sparkly. I also hope we take a trip to Hawaii as that is your latest location of interest. I hope that the world is always at your feet. It is...Never forget that!

You truly are a very special individual. You have so many friends and have the ability to make new ones everywhere you go. You have an open heart and an open mind, two very important things to have in this life. May they go on with you as you grow and learn. You are smart, funny, loving and lovable. You are the perfect mix of all of what life should be.

You are a star. You are my star. May you always shine brightly. I love you in ways I can't even explain to you, but know this...I will always love you.

Love,
Mom

New York City in the Spring

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The Manhattan/Brooklyn skylines taken from the Staten Island Ferry:

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Alexis finally got to see "her" Statue of Liberty. It was love at first sight!

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Now I've got to get her over to the Eiffel Tower.... ;oP

The Globe sculpture that stood between the Twin Towers and was pulled from the wreckage:

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My understanding is that they are going to move this from Battery Park, back over to the new WTC site when it is complete.

Tulips on Broadway:

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Grace Church:

Grace Church, New York

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I've always been fascinated with this church. It's such a gorgeous building!

Another shot of Manhattan taken from the Staten Island Ferry:

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And one of my little tea cup taking in the big city:

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And yes she insisted on wearing her Wellies! She and those boots pounded the pavement and good! She liked riding in the cab better though!

New York in the spring? I highly recommend it! I had forgotten how vibrant that city is and how much I love it! I can't wait to go back!

Meet Tulip and Daffodil aka The Tadpoles!

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Alexis named them. I'm not sure why she chose flowers, but it works!

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I had forgotten how cute tadpoles are! I mean seriously look at that little face!

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They came boxed in Styrofoam and each in their own little individual bag:

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Then you had to float them in their habitat to acclimate them much like you do when you buy a new fish for an aquarium:

The Tadpoles

And now they are swimming free! This will be a fun little experiment for Lex. I love this kind of stuff!

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